Hammering a ride in the mountains I came to the realization that I will never be that good at anything physical. Which was kind of a bummer to admit to myself. However, on the same note I was high as a kite on endorphins for hours afterwords which proved to me that personal goals and aspirations are far more powerful than the beating of your peer. While we do live in a very competitive world, we must first understand our limitations, and then secondly grasp at our own convictions of success. What drove me up the mountain that day was competition to beat as many people as I could on "Strava" what will keep me riding is the data that I am improving. Utilizing the external forces of competition to your advantage can be a very uplifting way of pushing your very own limits. The dreadful realization that I am not even a top decile rider in the state was uplifting because I am not a top decile rider in the state, thus, never could I compete at a level that would ever be worth a nickel. This was uplifting because it brought me back to my internal competition that said I succeeded, over 10MPH up over 3000 feet of elevation gain. That's a win folks, and you must celebrate the small things in life!
Recently, I had an experience that reshaped my understanding of the psychology of money. I took over a property management job where part of my payment came in physical cash, money previously directed to someone else for this task. Most tenants paid digitally or by check, but one unit always paid in cash. Having that "management" fee/ maintenance fee tangible, in my hand, ignited a unique perspective. It wasn’t about the amount, but the form in which it arrived. Sure, I could take a full-time job earning in excess of $10K a month. However, that wouldn’t necessarily change my life as it would only take more of my time, the one resource I can't regenerate. Surprisingly, the extra $1K in cash monthly had a more significant impact, not because it was a windfall, but because it made me more mindful of my earnings. The physicality of cash and the process of earning it manually introduced a sense of value and respect for my work that was somewhat abstract before. This p...
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